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  • SELF-HELP-
    Making the Most of Our Cognitive and Social Limitations.
    What our shortcomings tell us about ourselves.
    Reviewed by Vanessa Lancaster

    KEY POINTS-
    After studying our limitations, we often discover that the ways we compensate for these limitations constitute strengths in themselves.
    Some limitations can be confronted directly, opening new opportunities and providing a new sense of mastery.
    Understanding our limitations allows us to know ourselves better, while removing unnecessary barriers to a more fulfilling life.
    Many of us are aware of our physical and artistic limitations, and we're able to acknowledge them and even make light of them. We readily admit that we will never play professional basketball or achieve greatness as sculptors or singers.

    But how well do we know our cognitive and social limitations? We notice some of them because we can compare what we manage with difficulty to what others accomplish with ease and grace. There are also tests that measure specific cognitive and interpersonal abilities. But in general, we are more aware of limitations of the body than limitations of the mind.

    Identifying cognitive and social limitations requires introspection, self-evaluation, and resolve. It means focusing on what we consistently have difficulty doing.

    When asked to evaluate ourselves, we mostly list positive qualities–not because we’re boastful, but because we’re shaped into that favorable response by such influences as college applications, career counseling, job interviews, and online dating platforms. Our elevator pitch doesn’t emphasize the negative.

    How Shortcomings Motivate Us
    Alfred Adler, a psychotherapist and contemporary of Freud, said that the motivation to compensate for our shortcomings begins in childhood when we are physically and cognitively less skilled than the older people in our lives. As children, we mature out of being smaller, weaker, and less knowledgeable, but the motivation to overcome or compensate for our limitations stays with us for the rest of our lives.

    Defining Our Abilities and Inabilities
    Our natural limitations are probably subsets of Gardner’s nine categories of multiple intelligence: linguistic, logical-mathematical, spatial, bodily-kinesthetic, musical, intrapersonal (knowing one’s self), interpersonal (knowing others), naturalistic, and existential.

    We may have shortcomings in verbal fluency or math or finding our way around or holding a tune, or taking the perspective of others.

    Working With Our Limitations
    Confronting
    Some limitations can be confronted directly. Early in his career, the noted psychotherapist, Albert Ellis, shed his awkwardness with public speaking by signing up to speak in public twice a week. By doing so, he learned to improve his verbal fluency while overcoming his fear.

    Tom Dempsey was born without toes on his right foot, but with strong motivation and a special shoe, he became a placekicker in the NFL. For 43 years, he held the record for the longest field goal ever kicked in the NFL.

    Other limitations can be placed in perspective and managed. I had a friend in college who stuttered.1 He worked on reducing his stuttering but also accepted it as a fact of his current life and did not allow it to limit him. He was a DJ on his own radio show and ran for student body president, with one of his slogans being, “No More Fast-Talking Politics.”

    Compensating
    We usually learn to live with our cognitive and social limitations by compensating.

    One of my weaknesses, for example, is finding my way around. GPS has largely removed that problem, but before that, I pored over maps of unfamiliar places prior to visiting these places, committing the major roads to memory and making notes on specific choice points. (GPS still doesn’t help me navigate an unfamiliar building with multiple hallways.) Another of my weaknesses is translating verbal instructions into physical movements, such as dance moves. I compensate by practicing with YouTube videos before going public.

    Avoiding
    We can also try to avoid difficult activities. But, avoidance leaves us unprepared when called upon to engage in the very activity we’ve been avoiding, and it also hides associated abilities we do have.

    An Exercise to Increase Awareness of Our Limitations
    In my class on the Self, I ask students to describe an activity they have consistent difficulty with–something they’ve been dealing with most of their lives.

    They focus on the activity itself, their difficulties with this activity, their strategies for compensating, and the possible sources of the difficulties. For many of them, this is the most focused thinking they’ve ever done about this specific limitation.

    With every class, students present a diverse set of limitations: awkwardness talking to people they don’t know, problems with math, not feeling emotionally supportive with friends, an inability to spell, setbacks with standardized tests, clumsiness in flirting or small talk, a poor sense of direction, a lack of singing ability.

    Personal Benefits
    Many students discover that how they compensate for their limitations constitutes strengths in themselves. If they get others to help, they learn that graceful persuasion is a strength. If they memorize phrases to manage interpersonal awkwardness, they value their resourcefulness.

    Some students discover that what they thought was a limitation is actually an activity they can do, but one that creates anxiety. They then work on ways to reduce their anxiety.

    Other students learn that describing a limitation in detail circumscribes the problem. Someone with difficulty expressing himself said he realized the difficulty was not with good friends and family–or with strangers, but with acquaintances in between. Focusing specifically on our limitations can limit the limitations.

    Sometimes, directly confronting a limitation vanquishes it while also opening opportunities.
    One student joined the debate team to provide a structured setting for overcoming her unease with disagreement. She then became an accomplished collegiate debater, which brought about a feeling of mastery and new friendships and travel opportunities.

    Professional Benefits
    Most of us choose careers that draw on our strengths. But, sometimes, professional interests can overlap with natural limitations: actors who can’t remember lines, dental students unable to work in the mirror image world, and people devoted to helping animals but lacking the mathematical talent for veterinary medicine.

    When professional aspirations overlap with persistent limitations, this assignment can encourage people to seek specific training in their area of difficulty or to consider shifting their academic studies to a related area that allows professional satisfaction without implacable struggle.

    Continuing Efforts
    If we choose, we can develop a comprehensive program for managing more pervasive limitations we want to compensate for.

    One resonant example is David Finch’s collection of advice to himself for overcoming anti-social behaviors with his wife due to Asperger’s syndrome. He focused on specific matters (Don’t change the radio station when she’s singing along), more general rules (Apologies don’t count when you shout them), and larger advice (Be her friend, first and always).

    His journal of best practices continues to guide him as a husband and father in ways large, small, and in between.

    Thriving With Our Limitations
    Literature provides countless examples of lives dramatically short-circuited by personal limitations: Othello's jealousy, Jon Snow's stubbornness, and Veruca Salt's selfishness. If these characters had identified their limitations and focused on how to compensate, they would have lived less troubled and more fulfilled fictional lives. Ebenezer Scrooge eventually managed to overcome his greed and miserliness, and he was happier for it.

    Closely examining our limitations allows us to know ourselves better while removing unnecessary barriers to a more fulfilling life. More broadly, it encourages humility and can ultimately bestow wisdom.
    SELF-HELP- Making the Most of Our Cognitive and Social Limitations. What our shortcomings tell us about ourselves. Reviewed by Vanessa Lancaster KEY POINTS- After studying our limitations, we often discover that the ways we compensate for these limitations constitute strengths in themselves. Some limitations can be confronted directly, opening new opportunities and providing a new sense of mastery. Understanding our limitations allows us to know ourselves better, while removing unnecessary barriers to a more fulfilling life. Many of us are aware of our physical and artistic limitations, and we're able to acknowledge them and even make light of them. We readily admit that we will never play professional basketball or achieve greatness as sculptors or singers. But how well do we know our cognitive and social limitations? We notice some of them because we can compare what we manage with difficulty to what others accomplish with ease and grace. There are also tests that measure specific cognitive and interpersonal abilities. But in general, we are more aware of limitations of the body than limitations of the mind. Identifying cognitive and social limitations requires introspection, self-evaluation, and resolve. It means focusing on what we consistently have difficulty doing. When asked to evaluate ourselves, we mostly list positive qualities–not because we’re boastful, but because we’re shaped into that favorable response by such influences as college applications, career counseling, job interviews, and online dating platforms. Our elevator pitch doesn’t emphasize the negative. How Shortcomings Motivate Us Alfred Adler, a psychotherapist and contemporary of Freud, said that the motivation to compensate for our shortcomings begins in childhood when we are physically and cognitively less skilled than the older people in our lives. As children, we mature out of being smaller, weaker, and less knowledgeable, but the motivation to overcome or compensate for our limitations stays with us for the rest of our lives. Defining Our Abilities and Inabilities Our natural limitations are probably subsets of Gardner’s nine categories of multiple intelligence: linguistic, logical-mathematical, spatial, bodily-kinesthetic, musical, intrapersonal (knowing one’s self), interpersonal (knowing others), naturalistic, and existential. We may have shortcomings in verbal fluency or math or finding our way around or holding a tune, or taking the perspective of others. Working With Our Limitations Confronting Some limitations can be confronted directly. Early in his career, the noted psychotherapist, Albert Ellis, shed his awkwardness with public speaking by signing up to speak in public twice a week. By doing so, he learned to improve his verbal fluency while overcoming his fear. Tom Dempsey was born without toes on his right foot, but with strong motivation and a special shoe, he became a placekicker in the NFL. For 43 years, he held the record for the longest field goal ever kicked in the NFL. Other limitations can be placed in perspective and managed. I had a friend in college who stuttered.1 He worked on reducing his stuttering but also accepted it as a fact of his current life and did not allow it to limit him. He was a DJ on his own radio show and ran for student body president, with one of his slogans being, “No More Fast-Talking Politics.” Compensating We usually learn to live with our cognitive and social limitations by compensating. One of my weaknesses, for example, is finding my way around. GPS has largely removed that problem, but before that, I pored over maps of unfamiliar places prior to visiting these places, committing the major roads to memory and making notes on specific choice points. (GPS still doesn’t help me navigate an unfamiliar building with multiple hallways.) Another of my weaknesses is translating verbal instructions into physical movements, such as dance moves. I compensate by practicing with YouTube videos before going public. Avoiding We can also try to avoid difficult activities. But, avoidance leaves us unprepared when called upon to engage in the very activity we’ve been avoiding, and it also hides associated abilities we do have. An Exercise to Increase Awareness of Our Limitations In my class on the Self, I ask students to describe an activity they have consistent difficulty with–something they’ve been dealing with most of their lives. They focus on the activity itself, their difficulties with this activity, their strategies for compensating, and the possible sources of the difficulties. For many of them, this is the most focused thinking they’ve ever done about this specific limitation. With every class, students present a diverse set of limitations: awkwardness talking to people they don’t know, problems with math, not feeling emotionally supportive with friends, an inability to spell, setbacks with standardized tests, clumsiness in flirting or small talk, a poor sense of direction, a lack of singing ability. Personal Benefits Many students discover that how they compensate for their limitations constitutes strengths in themselves. If they get others to help, they learn that graceful persuasion is a strength. If they memorize phrases to manage interpersonal awkwardness, they value their resourcefulness. Some students discover that what they thought was a limitation is actually an activity they can do, but one that creates anxiety. They then work on ways to reduce their anxiety. Other students learn that describing a limitation in detail circumscribes the problem. Someone with difficulty expressing himself said he realized the difficulty was not with good friends and family–or with strangers, but with acquaintances in between. Focusing specifically on our limitations can limit the limitations. Sometimes, directly confronting a limitation vanquishes it while also opening opportunities. One student joined the debate team to provide a structured setting for overcoming her unease with disagreement. She then became an accomplished collegiate debater, which brought about a feeling of mastery and new friendships and travel opportunities. Professional Benefits Most of us choose careers that draw on our strengths. But, sometimes, professional interests can overlap with natural limitations: actors who can’t remember lines, dental students unable to work in the mirror image world, and people devoted to helping animals but lacking the mathematical talent for veterinary medicine. When professional aspirations overlap with persistent limitations, this assignment can encourage people to seek specific training in their area of difficulty or to consider shifting their academic studies to a related area that allows professional satisfaction without implacable struggle. Continuing Efforts If we choose, we can develop a comprehensive program for managing more pervasive limitations we want to compensate for. One resonant example is David Finch’s collection of advice to himself for overcoming anti-social behaviors with his wife due to Asperger’s syndrome. He focused on specific matters (Don’t change the radio station when she’s singing along), more general rules (Apologies don’t count when you shout them), and larger advice (Be her friend, first and always). His journal of best practices continues to guide him as a husband and father in ways large, small, and in between. Thriving With Our Limitations Literature provides countless examples of lives dramatically short-circuited by personal limitations: Othello's jealousy, Jon Snow's stubbornness, and Veruca Salt's selfishness. If these characters had identified their limitations and focused on how to compensate, they would have lived less troubled and more fulfilled fictional lives. Ebenezer Scrooge eventually managed to overcome his greed and miserliness, and he was happier for it. Closely examining our limitations allows us to know ourselves better while removing unnecessary barriers to a more fulfilling life. More broadly, it encourages humility and can ultimately bestow wisdom.
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  • CONFIDENCE-
    Write Fast, Revise Slow.
    Everyone makes mistakes but doers "do" first and fix errors later.
    Reviewed by Jessica Schrader

    KEY POINTS-
    Everyone wants to be a critic, but sometimes the artist just needs a thumbs-up.
    The maker needs to make something before they can ship anything. Focus on the doing first, and fix it later.
    If rules are made to be broken, why do creatives fear breaking them? Dare to be different.
    Like many creatives, I wear many hats.

    Sure, I’m a wife, mother, daughter, and sister, but I’m also a chef, handyman, laundress, and housekeeper (although I’m not very good at the latter).

    But what I’m thinking about here are my interests, my hobbies, and my jobs.

    For 23 years, I've been a graphic designer, grant writer, website content creator, photographer, and cheerleader for The Claflin Hill Symphony Orchestra, a regional nonprofit dedicated to live music performances.

    At first, my "work" was voluntary and unpaid.
    As the organization grew and gained a firmer financial foundation, I became the .5 of the official 1.5 full-time employees.

    One of my regular jobs is writing e-newsletters to promote upcoming concerts and prompt members to donate.

    Just last night, I sent this headline—
    “This is what you’ll HERE!”

    Your true friends are the ones who tell you when you have spinach in your teeth or a bugger in your nose. Well, one of my good friends at the symphony sent me an email apprising me of my error. The surprising thing is that she was the one and only one to point out my mistake. There are close to 2,000 people on our email list.

    But this brings me to an important point.
    Even though I used the wrong word, and even though most (all?) of those who read the line also understood the line, no one else emailed me.
    This surprised me because many on our list pride themselves on their English Language Usage skills.

    (I wonder if I misused capitalization and/or title case in the above sentence. Frankly, I don’t care.)

    What do you do when your fear of critics' comments for your infinitesimal foibles prevents you from doing what you love?
    Try this:
    Ignore the critics and know that no one is perfect.
    When people read my book Do Your ART! 10 Simple Steps to Enhance Creativity and Elevate Mood, many comment on my misspelling of the word "ART."

    I realize that the repeated misspelling offends some readers. Rules are rules, after all.

    From a young age, we are taught to follow the rules.

    After all, the rules of the road prevent accidents, gridlock, and road rage… well, they might actually prompt the latter.

    But rules are meant to be broken, aren’t they?
    Picasso represents the benefits of ignoring or bending particular established rules composition. Dickinson, too, challenged traditional poetic forms.

    I explain that when I started writing my book and the phrase Do Your ART!, I accidentally mistyped and capitalized the second letter of the word.

    The funny thing is that I kept making this same mistake.

    You know those errors you always make but keep messing up even though you're prepared for the slip-ups?

    Instead of the constant battle, I decided to embrace the mistake.
    Every artist makes mistakes
    The seamstress accidentally snips the fabric when trimming threads.
    The gardener accidentally pulls the crop when weeding the weeds.
    The baker accidentally whips the cream too long, causing the whipped cream to separate.
    The musician cracks a note.
    The carpenter chips aboard.
    The painter overdoes the scene.
    The rainbow turns from ROYGBIV into an arc of shades of brown.
    The writer writes too long, too short, too detailed, and not detailed enough.

    In teaching, it is crucial to help my students gain confidence. My students often come to my college writing classes with damaged self-confidence because their teachers, past and present, focus on grammar, spelling, and writing mechanics. Those things are critical, but content and organization need cultivation first.

    I have an assignment that prompts my students to write an extended first essay. This past semester, the page length ranged from seven pages to 109.

    In self-editing and revising, I use a very analytical approach. For example, I have done extensive reverse outlines of novels producing a colorful spreadsheet of scenes, settings, and character traits.

    Write fast, revise slowly
    If you want to not appear like an inscribing idiot, you could attempt careful revision tactics.

    In revising Do Your ART!, I also pulled apart the text. In many ways, the process felt more like an autopsy than a revision as I laid out the text so that I could see how the words functioned on their own.

    I firmly believe in writing fast and revising slowly. I tell my students that you must start with a chunk of diamond to get a beautifully faceted diamond. Let the book present itself to you. See what the story is and what it wants to be. Then, you can shape the words, and the paragraphs, into an independent, autonomous thing that must live without the author making excuses for its shortcomings, mistakes, and errors.

    I am obsessed with the process of writing
    Writing, rewriting, revising, and starting completely over is fun. That is why working toward a performance focuses on every step in writing and publishing. Many art forms suffer a similar "it’s never really finished" philosophy.

    But performance serves as a finish line. Like final exams for my students, the end is the end, until next time.

    Regardless of the hat you're wearing today, know you're doing it—you're making your "ART"
    When researching and learning more about creativity, I posited, 'What is good?'
    I wanted to be good.
    I wanted to be great.
    I wanted to know how to tell the difference between good and bad so that I could be great.
    The wonderful truth about humans and their need for art is that each of us has different likes and preferences.

    You like jazz. I prefer new age.
    You prefer the mountains. I like the ocean.
    You like realism. I prefer impressionism.
    You prefer dark walnut stain. I like honey oak.
    You like Mexican. I prefer Thai.
    You prefer musicals. I like comedy.
    You like tight-fitting pants. I prefer baggy.
    Learn to love what you do.

    Be your biggest fan.
    Know and believe you're doing ART! because you are an artist/creative/maker.
    CONFIDENCE- Write Fast, Revise Slow. Everyone makes mistakes but doers "do" first and fix errors later. Reviewed by Jessica Schrader KEY POINTS- Everyone wants to be a critic, but sometimes the artist just needs a thumbs-up. The maker needs to make something before they can ship anything. Focus on the doing first, and fix it later. If rules are made to be broken, why do creatives fear breaking them? Dare to be different. Like many creatives, I wear many hats. Sure, I’m a wife, mother, daughter, and sister, but I’m also a chef, handyman, laundress, and housekeeper (although I’m not very good at the latter). But what I’m thinking about here are my interests, my hobbies, and my jobs. For 23 years, I've been a graphic designer, grant writer, website content creator, photographer, and cheerleader for The Claflin Hill Symphony Orchestra, a regional nonprofit dedicated to live music performances. At first, my "work" was voluntary and unpaid. As the organization grew and gained a firmer financial foundation, I became the .5 of the official 1.5 full-time employees. One of my regular jobs is writing e-newsletters to promote upcoming concerts and prompt members to donate. Just last night, I sent this headline— “This is what you’ll HERE!” Your true friends are the ones who tell you when you have spinach in your teeth or a bugger in your nose. Well, one of my good friends at the symphony sent me an email apprising me of my error. The surprising thing is that she was the one and only one to point out my mistake. There are close to 2,000 people on our email list. But this brings me to an important point. Even though I used the wrong word, and even though most (all?) of those who read the line also understood the line, no one else emailed me. This surprised me because many on our list pride themselves on their English Language Usage skills. (I wonder if I misused capitalization and/or title case in the above sentence. Frankly, I don’t care.) What do you do when your fear of critics' comments for your infinitesimal foibles prevents you from doing what you love? Try this: Ignore the critics and know that no one is perfect. When people read my book Do Your ART! 10 Simple Steps to Enhance Creativity and Elevate Mood, many comment on my misspelling of the word "ART." I realize that the repeated misspelling offends some readers. Rules are rules, after all. From a young age, we are taught to follow the rules. After all, the rules of the road prevent accidents, gridlock, and road rage… well, they might actually prompt the latter. But rules are meant to be broken, aren’t they? Picasso represents the benefits of ignoring or bending particular established rules composition. Dickinson, too, challenged traditional poetic forms. I explain that when I started writing my book and the phrase Do Your ART!, I accidentally mistyped and capitalized the second letter of the word. The funny thing is that I kept making this same mistake. You know those errors you always make but keep messing up even though you're prepared for the slip-ups? Instead of the constant battle, I decided to embrace the mistake. Every artist makes mistakes The seamstress accidentally snips the fabric when trimming threads. The gardener accidentally pulls the crop when weeding the weeds. The baker accidentally whips the cream too long, causing the whipped cream to separate. The musician cracks a note. The carpenter chips aboard. The painter overdoes the scene. The rainbow turns from ROYGBIV into an arc of shades of brown. The writer writes too long, too short, too detailed, and not detailed enough. In teaching, it is crucial to help my students gain confidence. My students often come to my college writing classes with damaged self-confidence because their teachers, past and present, focus on grammar, spelling, and writing mechanics. Those things are critical, but content and organization need cultivation first. I have an assignment that prompts my students to write an extended first essay. This past semester, the page length ranged from seven pages to 109. In self-editing and revising, I use a very analytical approach. For example, I have done extensive reverse outlines of novels producing a colorful spreadsheet of scenes, settings, and character traits. Write fast, revise slowly If you want to not appear like an inscribing idiot, you could attempt careful revision tactics. In revising Do Your ART!, I also pulled apart the text. In many ways, the process felt more like an autopsy than a revision as I laid out the text so that I could see how the words functioned on their own. I firmly believe in writing fast and revising slowly. I tell my students that you must start with a chunk of diamond to get a beautifully faceted diamond. Let the book present itself to you. See what the story is and what it wants to be. Then, you can shape the words, and the paragraphs, into an independent, autonomous thing that must live without the author making excuses for its shortcomings, mistakes, and errors. I am obsessed with the process of writing Writing, rewriting, revising, and starting completely over is fun. That is why working toward a performance focuses on every step in writing and publishing. Many art forms suffer a similar "it’s never really finished" philosophy. But performance serves as a finish line. Like final exams for my students, the end is the end, until next time. Regardless of the hat you're wearing today, know you're doing it—you're making your "ART" When researching and learning more about creativity, I posited, 'What is good?' I wanted to be good. I wanted to be great. I wanted to know how to tell the difference between good and bad so that I could be great. The wonderful truth about humans and their need for art is that each of us has different likes and preferences. You like jazz. I prefer new age. You prefer the mountains. I like the ocean. You like realism. I prefer impressionism. You prefer dark walnut stain. I like honey oak. You like Mexican. I prefer Thai. You prefer musicals. I like comedy. You like tight-fitting pants. I prefer baggy. Learn to love what you do. Be your biggest fan. Know and believe you're doing ART! because you are an artist/creative/maker.
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  • ANGER-
    An Antidote to Anger.
    Ice, ice baby.
    Reviewed by Michelle Quirk

    KEY POINTS-
    A 3-step process can help us to somatically, cognitively, and creatively navigate anger and intense emotions.
    Anger can be mindfully held, named, explored, and expressed so that it does not become debilitating or damaging to others.
    Affect labeling assists with emotional regulation by acknowledging and validating our experience.

    When our physical body is injured and inflamed, rest and ice are part of the standard healing protocol. When our emotions are inflamed and fiery, often, we are told to “cool it.” These words may be more useful than we think.

    If feelings of anger and frustration become highly activated and we are not skilled in emotional regulation, we can become like molten lava that either erupts or oozes. Unaddressed emotional stockpiling can become explosive and, often, another person unintentionally gets burned. Other times, unprocessed emotions slowly suffocate joy, opportunity, and anything on a positive, peaceful path. Both of these scenarios can cause fissures in our mental health and our relationships.

    So how do we regulate emotions before they reach a boiling point?

    According to Dan Segal (1999), author of The Developing Mind, we all have a “window of tolerance” representing the range of emotional arousal that is tolerable. When we are within our individual window, our nervous systems are operating optimally. When we are outside our window of tolerance for stress and overwhelm, we may become either hyper- or hypo-aroused as evidenced by fight, flight, or freeze behavioral responses.

    The next time you feel yourself climbing beyond your “window of tolerance,” I suggest you follow these three steps to quite literally, “cool off.” To further melt the heat of all-consuming thoughts and feelings, add intentional breathing with each step. Make each conscious exhale longer than the inhale. With regular practice, we can become more adept at handling all emotions, including anger.

    To remember this formula, call in the 1990 Vanilla Ice song, ”Ice Ice Baby.” If you are too young to know this song, it’s worth Googling—it may even make you giggle, which will also mitigate the overload of any difficult experiences.

    When anger strikes, head to your nearest freezer and grab some ice (or cold water if you do not have access to ice). While holding the ice in your hand, focus your awareness on the cube(s) as it melts. Ask yourself the following questions: What is the temperature? Texture? Sensation? Color? You may even lick it and see how it feels on your tongue. Engage as many senses as possible. This mindful practice will interrupt the immediate intensity of any situation. TikTok videos are now featuring vagus nerve icing of the face or body as a means for stress relief. Cold temperatures do, in fact, activate the vagus nerve and improve heart rate variability.

    If you can identify the place in your body where the emotion seems stuck, place the ice there (gut, throat, etc). The intention with this practice is not to take away the emotion or replace it with something we deem “better.” Instead, the practice is to sit with it mindfully and soften the acute crisis so it is more manageable.

    Step 2: “I Can Experience Emotion.”
    Often, when we are upset, we judge our feelings and tell ourselves, “I can’t handle this.” But, the truth is, we can.

    For this second step, identify, label, and allow your emotions by completing the "ICE" sentence, “I-C-E, I can experience…[fill in the blank]."

    Affect labeling assists with emotional regulation by acknowledging and validating our experience. The naming process provides clarity and distance from the internal sensations and the habitual, reactionary responses. Using magnetic resonance imaging (MRI) of the brain, Matthew Lieberman and his colleagues (2007) found that affect labeling provided a calming effect on the emotional areas of the brain. With this labeling process, we can have the emotion and not become that emotion.

    With my ICE protocol, it’s important to suspend judgment about the emotion. Catch your internal dialogue and reframe statements like, “I should not be feeling…” Instead, restate the ICE phrase, “I can experience…” The goal is to honor and allow all feelings, even rage. The ICE process gives you permission to own your feelings and not resist, deny, or suppress them.

    Next, challenge yourself to gain access to the root emotions. Connect with the fear, hurt, inadequacy, shame, or sadness beneath the angry or anxious surface. Again, use the ICE statement to acknowledge these emotional states. For example, you may say to yourself, “I can experience shame.” Then, give the emotion a 10-point scale rating. “I can experience shame, and, right now, my shame is at a 7.” Continue tracking its intensity and imagine it melting as you breathe with intention.

    Step 3: “I Can Express Emotion.”
    After naming your emotional states, you can proceed to the second "ICE" statement in my “Ice, Ice Baby” formula. This I-C-E stands for “I can express emotion.” Explore ways to release the energy of the emotion so that it has a place to land outside of self...but not on someone else.

    We all have a variety of tools available to us at any time to express emotion in healthy ways. I encourage individuals to find what works best for them. Once your ice has melted and you name your state of mind, you can practice expressing your feelings verbally, physically, or creatively. It is best to gather your toolbox and have it ready before emotions become overwhelming.

    Here are a few things to have on hand:
    Paper for journaling
    Running shoes for a walk or run
    Punching bag, jump rope
    Paper to shred
    Musical instruments to play
    Open space and music to dance or shake
    Lightweight balls to throw
    Art supplies to paint, sculpt, or draw
    A private place to let out a primal scream
    A trusted friend or counselor to call
    All emotions are energy in motion and, just like ice cubes outside of the freezer, they will dissolve with the right conditions. Emotional energy is not static; it wants to move. So, the next time you notice the heat rising beyond your window of tolerance, reach for "ICE, ICE Baby" and follow my steps to connect, allow, identify, and appropriately express your feelings.
    ANGER- An Antidote to Anger. Ice, ice baby. Reviewed by Michelle Quirk KEY POINTS- A 3-step process can help us to somatically, cognitively, and creatively navigate anger and intense emotions. Anger can be mindfully held, named, explored, and expressed so that it does not become debilitating or damaging to others. Affect labeling assists with emotional regulation by acknowledging and validating our experience. When our physical body is injured and inflamed, rest and ice are part of the standard healing protocol. When our emotions are inflamed and fiery, often, we are told to “cool it.” These words may be more useful than we think. If feelings of anger and frustration become highly activated and we are not skilled in emotional regulation, we can become like molten lava that either erupts or oozes. Unaddressed emotional stockpiling can become explosive and, often, another person unintentionally gets burned. Other times, unprocessed emotions slowly suffocate joy, opportunity, and anything on a positive, peaceful path. Both of these scenarios can cause fissures in our mental health and our relationships. So how do we regulate emotions before they reach a boiling point? According to Dan Segal (1999), author of The Developing Mind, we all have a “window of tolerance” representing the range of emotional arousal that is tolerable. When we are within our individual window, our nervous systems are operating optimally. When we are outside our window of tolerance for stress and overwhelm, we may become either hyper- or hypo-aroused as evidenced by fight, flight, or freeze behavioral responses. The next time you feel yourself climbing beyond your “window of tolerance,” I suggest you follow these three steps to quite literally, “cool off.” To further melt the heat of all-consuming thoughts and feelings, add intentional breathing with each step. Make each conscious exhale longer than the inhale. With regular practice, we can become more adept at handling all emotions, including anger. To remember this formula, call in the 1990 Vanilla Ice song, ”Ice Ice Baby.” If you are too young to know this song, it’s worth Googling—it may even make you giggle, which will also mitigate the overload of any difficult experiences. When anger strikes, head to your nearest freezer and grab some ice (or cold water if you do not have access to ice). While holding the ice in your hand, focus your awareness on the cube(s) as it melts. Ask yourself the following questions: What is the temperature? Texture? Sensation? Color? You may even lick it and see how it feels on your tongue. Engage as many senses as possible. This mindful practice will interrupt the immediate intensity of any situation. TikTok videos are now featuring vagus nerve icing of the face or body as a means for stress relief. Cold temperatures do, in fact, activate the vagus nerve and improve heart rate variability. If you can identify the place in your body where the emotion seems stuck, place the ice there (gut, throat, etc). The intention with this practice is not to take away the emotion or replace it with something we deem “better.” Instead, the practice is to sit with it mindfully and soften the acute crisis so it is more manageable. Step 2: “I Can Experience Emotion.” Often, when we are upset, we judge our feelings and tell ourselves, “I can’t handle this.” But, the truth is, we can. For this second step, identify, label, and allow your emotions by completing the "ICE" sentence, “I-C-E, I can experience…[fill in the blank]." Affect labeling assists with emotional regulation by acknowledging and validating our experience. The naming process provides clarity and distance from the internal sensations and the habitual, reactionary responses. Using magnetic resonance imaging (MRI) of the brain, Matthew Lieberman and his colleagues (2007) found that affect labeling provided a calming effect on the emotional areas of the brain. With this labeling process, we can have the emotion and not become that emotion. With my ICE protocol, it’s important to suspend judgment about the emotion. Catch your internal dialogue and reframe statements like, “I should not be feeling…” Instead, restate the ICE phrase, “I can experience…” The goal is to honor and allow all feelings, even rage. The ICE process gives you permission to own your feelings and not resist, deny, or suppress them. Next, challenge yourself to gain access to the root emotions. Connect with the fear, hurt, inadequacy, shame, or sadness beneath the angry or anxious surface. Again, use the ICE statement to acknowledge these emotional states. For example, you may say to yourself, “I can experience shame.” Then, give the emotion a 10-point scale rating. “I can experience shame, and, right now, my shame is at a 7.” Continue tracking its intensity and imagine it melting as you breathe with intention. Step 3: “I Can Express Emotion.” After naming your emotional states, you can proceed to the second "ICE" statement in my “Ice, Ice Baby” formula. This I-C-E stands for “I can express emotion.” Explore ways to release the energy of the emotion so that it has a place to land outside of self...but not on someone else. We all have a variety of tools available to us at any time to express emotion in healthy ways. I encourage individuals to find what works best for them. Once your ice has melted and you name your state of mind, you can practice expressing your feelings verbally, physically, or creatively. It is best to gather your toolbox and have it ready before emotions become overwhelming. Here are a few things to have on hand: Paper for journaling Running shoes for a walk or run Punching bag, jump rope Paper to shred Musical instruments to play Open space and music to dance or shake Lightweight balls to throw Art supplies to paint, sculpt, or draw A private place to let out a primal scream A trusted friend or counselor to call All emotions are energy in motion and, just like ice cubes outside of the freezer, they will dissolve with the right conditions. Emotional energy is not static; it wants to move. So, the next time you notice the heat rising beyond your window of tolerance, reach for "ICE, ICE Baby" and follow my steps to connect, allow, identify, and appropriately express your feelings.
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  • BURNOUT-
    Match Day and Mental Health.
    Personal Perspective: Preventing burnout in medical school.
    Reviewed by Kaja Perina

    KEY POINTS-
    March 17 is national Match Day: an important day for reflecting on medical school.
    Doctors have some of the highest rates of work dissatisfaction and suicide.
    Many factors that contribute to physician burnout begin in medical school with 11% of students contemplating suicide.
    Exploring medical school experiences can help identify how to work upstream to prevent physician burnout and improve mental health.
    March 17 is Match Day in the US. At exactly 12:00 pm EST, medical students all over the country, including myself, will be handed an envelope enclosing our fate: the residency program where we matched and will train for the next three to seven years, depending on specialty. For many of us (and our support networks), this is the most momentous day of our lives— a culmination of innumerable sacrifices and hours of studying. But as I look forward to a career in psychiatry, I can’t help but look back at the mountain we traversed and think about how our experiences have shaped our psyches.

    Compared to other professions, doctors have some of the highest rates of work dissatisfaction and suicide; around 300 physicians die by suicide each year.1 What I find particularly shocking is that this shift begins in medical school as we become immersed in the intense, often unforgiving culture. Upon entering medical school, studies find that medical students experience lower rates of depression compared with age- and education-matched peers. Yet, during medical school, the prevalence of depression jumps. Almost 30% of students report suffering from depression or depressive symptoms at some time during medical school, and 11% of students contemplate suicide.2 A confluence of factors contributes to these acute changes: the sheer volume of work, lack of sleep, stress from continuous high-stakes examinations, isolation due to academic demands, fears about future capability, feelings of inadequacy, and a non-supportive work environment.3

    Emotional and physical crises don’t happen on your timeline.
    This past year, I was rotating on internal medicine, providing care for patients with acute hypoxia and congestive heart failure. Meanwhile, on a medicine floor just like mine across the continent, one of my grandmothers died of respiratory failure while the other was hospitalized with a failing heart. Each day, I saw them in the patients I cared for—my grief unexpectedly bubbling up. In medical school, I’ve had three family members pass away and a few health issues, some of these occurring dangerously close to critical exams. The administrators were supportive but could only offer me the option of pushing through or taking the entire year off (one week off meant too many missed requirements).

    Medical school has an unceasing deluge of tasks unkind to the unpredictability of life and healing. Through this, I’ve learned the importance of being in conversation with myself to assess (and reassess) my capacity to carry on or my need for time off. I’ve found it similarly essential to communicate with faculty and access support resources to process difficult emotions and prevent compounding them, which can create fertile ground for future burnout.

    Emotions and self-worth inevitably become intertwined with our professional roles.
    As a third-year student on my surgical rotation, the attending urologist began grilling me on the embryological development of the testes. When I blanked, he would not let up with his questions. He emphatically punctuated the diatribe with, “even a preschooler would have more knowledge than you.” For the rest of the week, my gaze was locked on the floor. I turned inward, questioning my self-worth and whether I deserved to be in medicine.

    What that physician said to me was unacceptable: everyone deserves psychological safety in their workplace. When discussing the problematic behavior of senior physicians, one of my classmates said, “**** rolls downhill.” Perhaps, but that does not mean we should have to sit at the bottom and eat it. Improving mental health in medicine requires addressing people who sustain (historically) toxic work environments. In addition to changing this culture, personal reflection can help disentangle our worth from our white coats.

    At my core, I know I am a good friend, partner, and person, but these transcendent feelings sometimes become hard to remember. To spend as much time in the hospital/library and sacrifice as much as we do — time, money, relationships, sleep, mental health — means that the line between job and personhood becomes blurred. Cognitive distortions often form and are exacerbated by society convincing us our profession is a “calling.” Given this, it is invaluable to find time for the activities and people that remind us of our identity outside of medicine to re-calibrate our self-worth.

    Solidarity can and should take many forms.
    “You’re going to meet all your best friends in medical school,” I listened expectantly to my dad (a doctor), as we drove to the airport before year-one orientation. It didn’t take me long to realize that immediate, sorority-like friendship is not everyone's reality. However, after four years, I can attest that a closeness does develop with classmates. This bond was not immediately obvious to me, and it didn’t come from expertly navigating medical school’s new social norms and high-school-like cliques.

    I feel this solidarity as I hurry down the hospital hallways and lock eyes with another fourth-year student. We nod to each other with understanding eyes. This bondedness developed through the unspeakable amount we’ve jointly experienced: from innumerable lectures/exams to difficult rotations where we endured doctors with the emotional intelligence of sea sponges, fluid-filled nights on OB/GYN, or the heat of multi-hour skin grafts on burn victims where they keep the operating room hot. Our closeness is less High School Musical and more Lord of the Flies.

    Not everyone’s journey is the same.
    Although medical school is notoriously demanding, such demands are shaped by intersectionality and not necessarily borne equally. At my White Coat Ceremony, over a third of students received their white coats from a family member already in medicine– a revolving door of privilege. Medicine has historically been (and remains) a white and high-income space.4,5 Despite more individuals from underrepresented backgrounds entering medical school today, the environments that students arrive to learn in have largely stayed the same. The necessary anti-racist institutional culture, financial resources, mental health support, and representative mentorship that allow students to feel supported are not yet robust.

    This cultural disconnect is consequential: one study of medical students found that increased microaggression frequency from colleagues and senior physicians was associated with a positive depression screen in a dose-response relationship.6 The Association of American Medical Colleges (AAMC) is working to increase the number of students underrepresented in medicine. But the goal cannot merely be representation, rather it should be to create a new culture and system where students can thrive. The floor needs to be open for students to describe their experiences while institutions work to address systems that impact their mental health and potential.

    It is hard to pause and look back when constantly moving forward.
    I remember the shell I became and the neuroticism that set in while studying for the US medical licensing exams (USMLE). For weeks, I sat studying for 15 hours a day, not leaving my apartment, and attempting to sleep while gripped by the stress of my exam score determining my ability to match into the specialty of my choice. After completing our first USMLE (Step 1), my classmates and I were ecstatic, scrambling to organize parties to celebrate before our fast-approaching clinical rotations.

    I’ve taken over 400 exams since starting college and, somehow, it hasn’t become less stressful. The stakes have only felt higher as the sunk cost and bearing on my professional future grows. And as the competition for medical school and residency increases, a student must not only have impeccable grades but also be a renaissance person (do ground-breaking research, start a non-profit organization, climb Mount Everest, found a start-up, win a Nobel Prize, etc.); expert extrovert (winning over each resident, doctor, interviewer evaluating us); and world-renowned used car salesman (packaging oneself in countless application essays and interviews). Then, once you finally get into medical school or match into your dream residency or fellowship, they tell you to relax and enjoy it. How is a person whose cortisol and productivity have been running at such a high-octane level supposed to simply chill?

    It’s hard to flip the switch into Zen mode– it takes time for our bodies to let go of cumulative stress. Yet, the demands in medicine never stop, and the habits we convince ourselves are temporary often carry over. Unlearning conditioned behaviors is hard, making it vital to learn how to pause (guilt-free) despite the inundation of to-dos early in our careers.

    Understanding mental health on an intellectual level is different from questioning its applicability to oneself.
    Although physician suicide is the most acute and devastating issue surrounding mental health in medicine, the downstream impacts of medicine’s high stress and isolation are much more expansive. Students around me have struggled with anxiety, eating disorders, exercise addictions, and substance use.

    As medical institutions address the external factors contributing to trainees' mental health challenges, students should also feel empowered and accountable to lend and seek help– dismantling stigma in the process. When we think about physician burnout, we must work upstream and broaden our conceptualization of mental health risk factors and what struggling looks like (a student can still score in the top percentile on exams). We can all play a part in preventing physician burnout by creating a culture of reflexivity, support, and accountability– and joining together to advocate for more robust mental health resources and workplace protections.
    BURNOUT- Match Day and Mental Health. Personal Perspective: Preventing burnout in medical school. Reviewed by Kaja Perina KEY POINTS- March 17 is national Match Day: an important day for reflecting on medical school. Doctors have some of the highest rates of work dissatisfaction and suicide. Many factors that contribute to physician burnout begin in medical school with 11% of students contemplating suicide. Exploring medical school experiences can help identify how to work upstream to prevent physician burnout and improve mental health. March 17 is Match Day in the US. At exactly 12:00 pm EST, medical students all over the country, including myself, will be handed an envelope enclosing our fate: the residency program where we matched and will train for the next three to seven years, depending on specialty. For many of us (and our support networks), this is the most momentous day of our lives— a culmination of innumerable sacrifices and hours of studying. But as I look forward to a career in psychiatry, I can’t help but look back at the mountain we traversed and think about how our experiences have shaped our psyches. Compared to other professions, doctors have some of the highest rates of work dissatisfaction and suicide; around 300 physicians die by suicide each year.1 What I find particularly shocking is that this shift begins in medical school as we become immersed in the intense, often unforgiving culture. Upon entering medical school, studies find that medical students experience lower rates of depression compared with age- and education-matched peers. Yet, during medical school, the prevalence of depression jumps. Almost 30% of students report suffering from depression or depressive symptoms at some time during medical school, and 11% of students contemplate suicide.2 A confluence of factors contributes to these acute changes: the sheer volume of work, lack of sleep, stress from continuous high-stakes examinations, isolation due to academic demands, fears about future capability, feelings of inadequacy, and a non-supportive work environment.3 Emotional and physical crises don’t happen on your timeline. This past year, I was rotating on internal medicine, providing care for patients with acute hypoxia and congestive heart failure. Meanwhile, on a medicine floor just like mine across the continent, one of my grandmothers died of respiratory failure while the other was hospitalized with a failing heart. Each day, I saw them in the patients I cared for—my grief unexpectedly bubbling up. In medical school, I’ve had three family members pass away and a few health issues, some of these occurring dangerously close to critical exams. The administrators were supportive but could only offer me the option of pushing through or taking the entire year off (one week off meant too many missed requirements). Medical school has an unceasing deluge of tasks unkind to the unpredictability of life and healing. Through this, I’ve learned the importance of being in conversation with myself to assess (and reassess) my capacity to carry on or my need for time off. I’ve found it similarly essential to communicate with faculty and access support resources to process difficult emotions and prevent compounding them, which can create fertile ground for future burnout. Emotions and self-worth inevitably become intertwined with our professional roles. As a third-year student on my surgical rotation, the attending urologist began grilling me on the embryological development of the testes. When I blanked, he would not let up with his questions. He emphatically punctuated the diatribe with, “even a preschooler would have more knowledge than you.” For the rest of the week, my gaze was locked on the floor. I turned inward, questioning my self-worth and whether I deserved to be in medicine. What that physician said to me was unacceptable: everyone deserves psychological safety in their workplace. When discussing the problematic behavior of senior physicians, one of my classmates said, “shit rolls downhill.” Perhaps, but that does not mean we should have to sit at the bottom and eat it. Improving mental health in medicine requires addressing people who sustain (historically) toxic work environments. In addition to changing this culture, personal reflection can help disentangle our worth from our white coats. At my core, I know I am a good friend, partner, and person, but these transcendent feelings sometimes become hard to remember. To spend as much time in the hospital/library and sacrifice as much as we do — time, money, relationships, sleep, mental health — means that the line between job and personhood becomes blurred. Cognitive distortions often form and are exacerbated by society convincing us our profession is a “calling.” Given this, it is invaluable to find time for the activities and people that remind us of our identity outside of medicine to re-calibrate our self-worth. Solidarity can and should take many forms. “You’re going to meet all your best friends in medical school,” I listened expectantly to my dad (a doctor), as we drove to the airport before year-one orientation. It didn’t take me long to realize that immediate, sorority-like friendship is not everyone's reality. However, after four years, I can attest that a closeness does develop with classmates. This bond was not immediately obvious to me, and it didn’t come from expertly navigating medical school’s new social norms and high-school-like cliques. I feel this solidarity as I hurry down the hospital hallways and lock eyes with another fourth-year student. We nod to each other with understanding eyes. This bondedness developed through the unspeakable amount we’ve jointly experienced: from innumerable lectures/exams to difficult rotations where we endured doctors with the emotional intelligence of sea sponges, fluid-filled nights on OB/GYN, or the heat of multi-hour skin grafts on burn victims where they keep the operating room hot. Our closeness is less High School Musical and more Lord of the Flies. Not everyone’s journey is the same. Although medical school is notoriously demanding, such demands are shaped by intersectionality and not necessarily borne equally. At my White Coat Ceremony, over a third of students received their white coats from a family member already in medicine– a revolving door of privilege. Medicine has historically been (and remains) a white and high-income space.4,5 Despite more individuals from underrepresented backgrounds entering medical school today, the environments that students arrive to learn in have largely stayed the same. The necessary anti-racist institutional culture, financial resources, mental health support, and representative mentorship that allow students to feel supported are not yet robust. This cultural disconnect is consequential: one study of medical students found that increased microaggression frequency from colleagues and senior physicians was associated with a positive depression screen in a dose-response relationship.6 The Association of American Medical Colleges (AAMC) is working to increase the number of students underrepresented in medicine. But the goal cannot merely be representation, rather it should be to create a new culture and system where students can thrive. The floor needs to be open for students to describe their experiences while institutions work to address systems that impact their mental health and potential. It is hard to pause and look back when constantly moving forward. I remember the shell I became and the neuroticism that set in while studying for the US medical licensing exams (USMLE). For weeks, I sat studying for 15 hours a day, not leaving my apartment, and attempting to sleep while gripped by the stress of my exam score determining my ability to match into the specialty of my choice. After completing our first USMLE (Step 1), my classmates and I were ecstatic, scrambling to organize parties to celebrate before our fast-approaching clinical rotations. I’ve taken over 400 exams since starting college and, somehow, it hasn’t become less stressful. The stakes have only felt higher as the sunk cost and bearing on my professional future grows. And as the competition for medical school and residency increases, a student must not only have impeccable grades but also be a renaissance person (do ground-breaking research, start a non-profit organization, climb Mount Everest, found a start-up, win a Nobel Prize, etc.); expert extrovert (winning over each resident, doctor, interviewer evaluating us); and world-renowned used car salesman (packaging oneself in countless application essays and interviews). Then, once you finally get into medical school or match into your dream residency or fellowship, they tell you to relax and enjoy it. How is a person whose cortisol and productivity have been running at such a high-octane level supposed to simply chill? It’s hard to flip the switch into Zen mode– it takes time for our bodies to let go of cumulative stress. Yet, the demands in medicine never stop, and the habits we convince ourselves are temporary often carry over. Unlearning conditioned behaviors is hard, making it vital to learn how to pause (guilt-free) despite the inundation of to-dos early in our careers. Understanding mental health on an intellectual level is different from questioning its applicability to oneself. Although physician suicide is the most acute and devastating issue surrounding mental health in medicine, the downstream impacts of medicine’s high stress and isolation are much more expansive. Students around me have struggled with anxiety, eating disorders, exercise addictions, and substance use. As medical institutions address the external factors contributing to trainees' mental health challenges, students should also feel empowered and accountable to lend and seek help– dismantling stigma in the process. When we think about physician burnout, we must work upstream and broaden our conceptualization of mental health risk factors and what struggling looks like (a student can still score in the top percentile on exams). We can all play a part in preventing physician burnout by creating a culture of reflexivity, support, and accountability– and joining together to advocate for more robust mental health resources and workplace protections.
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  • SELF-CONTROL-
    10 Ways Life Is a Marshmallow Test.
    The importance of delayed gratification.
    Reviewed by Tyler Woods

    KEY POINTS-
    The Marshmallow Test demonstrated the importance of delayed gratification and self-control in predicting future success.
    Applying the lessons from the Marshmallow Test to various life domains can help individuals make better choices.
    Techniques to improve self-control and delay gratification can enhance individuals' success in multiple aspects of life.

    The Marshmallow Test, a landmark study by psychologist Walter Mischel in the late 1960s and early 1970s, provided groundbreaking insights into delayed gratification and self-control. In this test, young children were offered a choice: either eat one marshmallow immediately or wait for a short period and receive two marshmallows instead. The study found that children who could wait for the larger reward exhibited greater success in various aspects of life, such as academic achievement and emotional intelligence, later on.

    While the original study focused on children, the results are generalizable across age spans. Many adults continually grapple with immediate gratification, succumbing to their primal urges for pleasure and instant satisfaction. This predisposition can impede their capacity to make rational choices, eventually leading to adverse outcomes that impact multiple facets of their lives. By examining the Marshmallow Test's findings and applying them to various life situations, we can better understand how we consistently face similar challenges.

    10 Ways Life Is a Continuous Marshmallow Test
    Academic pursuits: Pursuing education is a prime example of delayed gratification in action. Students must invest significant time, effort, and resources to acquire knowledge and develop skills, often sacrificing short-term pleasures for long-term benefits. Success in academic endeavors depends on managing distractions, maintaining focus, and prioritizing learning over immediate gratification.
    Financial planning: Managing personal finances and long-term investments requires self-control and delaying gratification. Saving money, paying off debts, and investing for retirement necessitate the postponement of immediate desires in favor of future financial stability and growth.

    Career development: Career success often hinges on setting long-term goals and working diligently towards them. This process may involve sacrificing leisure time, pursuing further education, or taking on additional responsibilities to gain experience and skills. The willingness to delay immediate rewards for career advancement is crucial to professional achievement.
    Health and fitness: Maintaining a healthy lifestyle requires consistent choices that favor long-term well-being over short-term satisfaction. For example, choosing a nutritious meal over fast food, exercising regularly, and getting sufficient sleep all involve delaying gratification for one's long-term health.

    Relationships: Building and maintaining strong relationships demands patience, understanding, and the willingness to prioritize others' needs above one's desires. Listening and empathizing in friendships require setting aside one's immediate interests to support and care for others.
    Parenting: Parenthood is a profound example of delayed gratification, as raising children involves numerous sacrifices for their well-being and development. Parents often give up personal time, financial resources, and career opportunities to provide a nurturing environment for their children, hoping that these sacrifices will yield well-adjusted, successful adults.

    Personal growth: Personal growth and self-improvement necessitate the willingness to confront one's weaknesses and invest time and effort into developing new skills and habits. This process may involve temporarily setting aside more pleasurable activities in favor of self-reflection, learning, and practice to become a better, more well-rounded individual.
    Environmental sustainability: Addressing environmental challenges requires a collective commitment to delaying gratification for the sake of future generations. This may involve conscious choices to consume less, recycle, and adopt sustainable practices, even if these actions involve short-term inconveniences or sacrifices.

    Community involvement: Active participation in one's community, such as volunteering or supporting local organizations, requires setting aside personal interests in favor of the collective good. Community work often demands time, effort, and resources, but the long-term benefits, including stronger social connections and a more vibrant, resilient community, make the investment worthwhile.
    Creative endeavors: Pursuing creative passions, such as writing, painting, or playing a musical instrument, requires dedication, persistence, and the willingness to prioritize long-term goals over immediate pleasures. Creative individuals often invest countless hours honing their skills, refining their techniques, and overcoming setbacks, aiming to produce something meaningful and fulfilling. This process demands strong self-discipline and the ability to delay gratification in pursuing artistic growth and accomplishment.

    How Can We Improve Our Ability to Delay Gratification?
    Establishing clear and attainable goals can help individuals maintain focus on long-term objectives, making it easier to resist short-term temptations. Practicing mindfulness and meditation further strengthens this resistance by improving self-awareness and emotional regulation, ultimately contributing to better impulse control and decision-making.

    Another practical approach is pre-commitment strategies, which involve committing to a specific action. This helps individuals adhere to their long-term goals, even in the face of temptation. Examples of such strategies include:
    Setting up automatic savings plans
    Enlisting the support of friends or family
    Using apps designed to promote self-control
    Cognitive restructuring also plays a vital role in resisting immediate rewards. By reframing the way individuals think about short-term temptations and long-term goals, they can better resist immediate rewards. For example, instead of focusing on the immediate pleasure of eating a sugary snack, they can remind themselves of the long-term health benefits of choosing a healthier alternative.

    Several other techniques can be employed to enhance self-control. One such technique is implementing intentions, which involves forming specific plans for how and when to act in certain situations. This helps individuals make better decisions when faced with temptations. Regular self-monitoring, which involves tracking progress toward long-term goals to maintain accountability and motivation. Lastly, reward substitution, replacing immediate rewards with more acceptable, less harmful alternatives, can be beneficial. This satisfies the desire for instant gratification while still working toward long-term goals.

    Delaying Life's Marshmallows
    The Marshmallow Test has far-reaching implications beyond its initial focus on young children's ability to delay gratification. From academic pursuits to creative endeavors, the ability to prioritize long-term goals and benefits over short-term desires plays a crucial role in our personal and collective success. Understanding that life is an ongoing marshmallow test can help individuals develop greater self-awareness, resilience, and adaptability. By cultivating the skills and mindset necessary to delay gratification, individuals can enhance their chances of success in various aspects of life, from health and relationships to personal growth and community involvement.
    SELF-CONTROL- 10 Ways Life Is a Marshmallow Test. The importance of delayed gratification. Reviewed by Tyler Woods KEY POINTS- The Marshmallow Test demonstrated the importance of delayed gratification and self-control in predicting future success. Applying the lessons from the Marshmallow Test to various life domains can help individuals make better choices. Techniques to improve self-control and delay gratification can enhance individuals' success in multiple aspects of life. The Marshmallow Test, a landmark study by psychologist Walter Mischel in the late 1960s and early 1970s, provided groundbreaking insights into delayed gratification and self-control. In this test, young children were offered a choice: either eat one marshmallow immediately or wait for a short period and receive two marshmallows instead. The study found that children who could wait for the larger reward exhibited greater success in various aspects of life, such as academic achievement and emotional intelligence, later on. While the original study focused on children, the results are generalizable across age spans. Many adults continually grapple with immediate gratification, succumbing to their primal urges for pleasure and instant satisfaction. This predisposition can impede their capacity to make rational choices, eventually leading to adverse outcomes that impact multiple facets of their lives. By examining the Marshmallow Test's findings and applying them to various life situations, we can better understand how we consistently face similar challenges. 10 Ways Life Is a Continuous Marshmallow Test Academic pursuits: Pursuing education is a prime example of delayed gratification in action. Students must invest significant time, effort, and resources to acquire knowledge and develop skills, often sacrificing short-term pleasures for long-term benefits. Success in academic endeavors depends on managing distractions, maintaining focus, and prioritizing learning over immediate gratification. Financial planning: Managing personal finances and long-term investments requires self-control and delaying gratification. Saving money, paying off debts, and investing for retirement necessitate the postponement of immediate desires in favor of future financial stability and growth. Career development: Career success often hinges on setting long-term goals and working diligently towards them. This process may involve sacrificing leisure time, pursuing further education, or taking on additional responsibilities to gain experience and skills. The willingness to delay immediate rewards for career advancement is crucial to professional achievement. Health and fitness: Maintaining a healthy lifestyle requires consistent choices that favor long-term well-being over short-term satisfaction. For example, choosing a nutritious meal over fast food, exercising regularly, and getting sufficient sleep all involve delaying gratification for one's long-term health. Relationships: Building and maintaining strong relationships demands patience, understanding, and the willingness to prioritize others' needs above one's desires. Listening and empathizing in friendships require setting aside one's immediate interests to support and care for others. Parenting: Parenthood is a profound example of delayed gratification, as raising children involves numerous sacrifices for their well-being and development. Parents often give up personal time, financial resources, and career opportunities to provide a nurturing environment for their children, hoping that these sacrifices will yield well-adjusted, successful adults. Personal growth: Personal growth and self-improvement necessitate the willingness to confront one's weaknesses and invest time and effort into developing new skills and habits. This process may involve temporarily setting aside more pleasurable activities in favor of self-reflection, learning, and practice to become a better, more well-rounded individual. Environmental sustainability: Addressing environmental challenges requires a collective commitment to delaying gratification for the sake of future generations. This may involve conscious choices to consume less, recycle, and adopt sustainable practices, even if these actions involve short-term inconveniences or sacrifices. Community involvement: Active participation in one's community, such as volunteering or supporting local organizations, requires setting aside personal interests in favor of the collective good. Community work often demands time, effort, and resources, but the long-term benefits, including stronger social connections and a more vibrant, resilient community, make the investment worthwhile. Creative endeavors: Pursuing creative passions, such as writing, painting, or playing a musical instrument, requires dedication, persistence, and the willingness to prioritize long-term goals over immediate pleasures. Creative individuals often invest countless hours honing their skills, refining their techniques, and overcoming setbacks, aiming to produce something meaningful and fulfilling. This process demands strong self-discipline and the ability to delay gratification in pursuing artistic growth and accomplishment. How Can We Improve Our Ability to Delay Gratification? Establishing clear and attainable goals can help individuals maintain focus on long-term objectives, making it easier to resist short-term temptations. Practicing mindfulness and meditation further strengthens this resistance by improving self-awareness and emotional regulation, ultimately contributing to better impulse control and decision-making. Another practical approach is pre-commitment strategies, which involve committing to a specific action. This helps individuals adhere to their long-term goals, even in the face of temptation. Examples of such strategies include: Setting up automatic savings plans Enlisting the support of friends or family Using apps designed to promote self-control Cognitive restructuring also plays a vital role in resisting immediate rewards. By reframing the way individuals think about short-term temptations and long-term goals, they can better resist immediate rewards. For example, instead of focusing on the immediate pleasure of eating a sugary snack, they can remind themselves of the long-term health benefits of choosing a healthier alternative. Several other techniques can be employed to enhance self-control. One such technique is implementing intentions, which involves forming specific plans for how and when to act in certain situations. This helps individuals make better decisions when faced with temptations. Regular self-monitoring, which involves tracking progress toward long-term goals to maintain accountability and motivation. Lastly, reward substitution, replacing immediate rewards with more acceptable, less harmful alternatives, can be beneficial. This satisfies the desire for instant gratification while still working toward long-term goals. Delaying Life's Marshmallows The Marshmallow Test has far-reaching implications beyond its initial focus on young children's ability to delay gratification. From academic pursuits to creative endeavors, the ability to prioritize long-term goals and benefits over short-term desires plays a crucial role in our personal and collective success. Understanding that life is an ongoing marshmallow test can help individuals develop greater self-awareness, resilience, and adaptability. By cultivating the skills and mindset necessary to delay gratification, individuals can enhance their chances of success in various aspects of life, from health and relationships to personal growth and community involvement.
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